Hey there, curious readers! Have you ever heard the saying, “It’s not just what you say, but how you say it”? Today, we dive into the wonderful world of active listening and polite words!
Let’s start with a small anecdote:
When I was your age, a classmate said to me “You are fat” and laughed at me, while playing. I didn’t realise what she had said, however, later, on my way home I remembered what had been said and for a long time it kept hurting me. She didn’t even say sorry the next day. Our words can build a relationship or damage a relationship.
What is Active Listening?
Active listening means giving your full attention to the person talking, making them feel important and valued. It involves not just hearing the words but really understanding what the other person is saying.
Here are some examples:
Eye Contact: When your friend is speaking, look at them. It shows you are interested and focused on what they’re saying.
Nodding: A little nod here and there lets the speaker know you’re following along and engaged in the conversation.
Repeat Back: Sometimes, repeat what your friend said in your own words. It not only shows you’re listening but helps clarify any misunderstandings.
Ask Questions: If there’s something you don’t understand or want to know more about, ask questions. It keeps the conversation flowing.
Polite Words: Sprinkle Some Kindness!
Politeness is like magic – it can turn a regular conversation into a fantastic one! Here are some examples:
Please and Thank You: These are the magic words that open doors to kindness. Say “please” when you’re asking for something and “thank you” when someone does something nice for you.
Excuse Me: When you need someone’s attention, instead of interrupting, say “excuse me.” It’s a polite way to let them know you have something to share.
I’m Sorry: If you make a mistake or accidentally hurt someone’s feelings, saying sorry shows that you care about their feelings.
May I? When you want to do something, asking “may I” instead of just doing it is a way of showing respect.
Family Activity:
- Share with us what your magical polite words are.
- Share an incident where you felt someone attentively listened to you.
So, my awesome readers, active listening and using polite words are like magic in the world of communication. They help us connect better with our friends, make our conversations more enjoyable, and build stronger relationships. Let’s spread the magic of kindness and great conversations!